No. Under EPA Section 609 (40 CFR Part 82), only technicians certified in Type II or Universal refrigerant handling can purchase R-410A and perform refrigerant-related work. Your helper cannot legally buy the jug or recover/recharge the system without proper certification.
Swapping a condenser involves refrigerant recovery, evacuation, and charging—activities requiring an EPA card. Even if the unit is “his own house,” federal law applies regardless of ownership.
Additionally, most states require HVAC contractors to hold a valid license for refrigerant work. Check your state’s HVAC board rules—some mandate a contractor’s license for any refrigerant-handling job, even residential.
If your helper isn’t certified, he can assist with non-refrigerant tasks (electrical connections, mounting, etc.) under direct supervision of a certified technician. But the refrigerant work must be done by someone with the proper credentials.
Bottom line: Have a certified technician handle the refrigerant side. It’s both illegal and unsafe otherwise.